Controversial socialite Olinda Chapel has penned a letter of comfort to Andy Muridzo’s wife, Mai Keketso, currently making headlines following a public rant she launched on her husband for cheating and deserting the family home.
The letter reads…
Dear Mai Keketso,
Being cheated on can break you and it can break your world that much I understand. In the moment of your heart being broken and torn to pieces by the one person that was meant to love you and protect you. It seems the world does not understand and everyone just wants to judge you and tell you how to feel. All of a sudden everyone becomes a love or heart pharmacist and they want to prescribe feelings to you. Apo chinonzi regedza ndicho chiri mumawoko kwete chiri mu moyo. How can the world tell you to stop loving him it’s not like it’s a button you can press.
As someone that has walked in your shoes not once but a few times. I understand it’s hard to just stop loving that person despite all the shit and hurtful things they have done. Because we are a special breed and God made us that way. When we love we love with our souls.
Like energy my dear sister I would like to see you transform that love. You know they say you can’t destroy energy but you can transfer it. Our type of love is like energy. I want you to transfer all the love you have for this man that clearly doesn’t respect you and transfer it into yourself. Start using that love for you. Love you more than you have loved him. Put you before him. When you love yourself you come first. When you love you, you will treat yourself better and you will know you worth. Once you know your worth everything else will fall into place. We are not here to judge you as this can happen to anyone of us.
Remember it’s now how we fall it’s how we rise.
Cry if you must, hurt if you may . . . But start loving yourself and the universe will give you what has been searching for you all along.
We love you and stand with you
Most importantly we pray for you
